It has been said that runners have their best thoughts of the day while out running. Runner and writer
Michael Selman shares his
"Thoughts on Running" with us here at ontherunevents.com.
One of the things I have realized throughout my life is that accomplishing
goals is ultimately not so satisfying to me. In fact, it's probably the
least enjoyable moment of the whole process of exploring my limits, whatever
they may be. The hard work and preparation captures the imagination, and
there are always new goals to occupy my focus, but the joy of accomplishment
is short-lived, and can lead to complacency if we don't constantly look just
a little bit beyond the finish line.
Runners are a paradox, perpetually young at heart, but aging ever so subtly
from one year to the next. It adds to the lure and mystique of our
unfulfillment. We deny vehemently the aging process, and strive for the same
athletic goals we did when we first started all those years ago. We may have
never reached them, even back then, but there is always tomorrow, and hope.
We look in the mirror, and are convinced that we don't look a day older than
we did as teenagers. How could we? We still feel the inner child, and
expect it so display outwardly in the same manner.
Before I went to Israel, I had to have my passport renewed. The one from 10
years earlier had just expired. When I got the new passport back, I compared
the picture with the one that had been taken for the old one. My current
hair was much grayer, and a bit thinner. My face told the story of the past
ten years. But still, in my mind, I said that maybe with a little Grecian
Formula and a good night's sleep, I'd look just like in years past.
There are still PR's in my future, and don't try to tell me otherwise. It
might be in the 5K, or maybe in the marathon. Possibly, it could lie
anywhere in between, or maybe even beyond. But it is there, that carrot of
unfulfillment, dangling just out of my reach.
We continue to run, I am convinced, so we can continue to achieve new levels
of unfulfillment. Running practically guarantees it. There is always a
boundary to what we can do as runners. It could be speed, or distance, as
they are both barriers we love to push to the point of failure. If not for
defeat in one manner or another, we would have stopped running in pursuit of
other failures long ago.
So continue to have unachievable goals, and make every effort to consummate
them. Only by trying to accomplish the impossible can you reach the
improbable. And here's a wish that your running continues to be unfulfilling
forever, as long as there is a tomorrow, and a dream.
Michael Selman distributes his "Thoughts on Running"
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